One of the ways you can get to your man's heart is figure out what's going on in his head. it's a fact many men are not open with their feelings, if this is the case with your man you need to try some strategies that will help him open up with you and by making him feel more comfortable.
For one, do not be too critical of him. If you criticize him about the things he does then he will keep things to himself to avoid hearing what you say. Keep your thoughts to yourself so you can hear his thoughts. When you give him the freedom to express himself without criticism he will be more open with you.
On the subject of opening up to you, try your best to pay attention and listen to what he has to say. Be part of his conversation and not on the sidelines hearing but not comprehending what he says. Guys can be the same way with their girl so it goes both ways. Just be careful to listen and he will really appreciate it.
Show him that you care about what he is saying by using body language. Show your interest by leaning toward him, unfolding your arms and looking at his eyes in a natural way. Mirroring the way he sits or acts can look like you are really part of his conversation. It has been shown that body language can really show how you feel in a given situation.
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