There are many ways to get a guy to like you. It can certainly seem pretty awful at times and a tad tricky, but getting a guy to like you need not be so challenging. This article contains 5 great tips that you can use in getting a guy to like you. Now, it's certainly not going to straight away simple (hey, hold hope it might be), but if you follow my advice, you'll be off to a really good start. And don't be put off by the first tip.
Be Awesome. Personally, I feel that getting a guy to like you comes down to one thing - being you. Liking yourself. Loving yourself. Not in a narcissist sort of way, not a selfish or an ego driven kind of thing. Rather that letting yourself be yourself in a quietly confident, really nice kind of way. It can be the hardest thing in the world to do, so start today. The more confident that you are, the more attractive that you are going to be to the guy. Seriously, he's not going to want someone who just doesn't want to live the life that they want to live it.
Make Him Feel Great. By this, I just mean that a) you hang out around him and b) that when you do, you are a genuinely fun person to be around. The happier that you can make him feel, the more he is going to want to repeat that feeling and aha, be around you more often.
Be Relaxed. If you're doing the tip above correctly, then you'll be doing this as well. Cool eh? You can either be really uptight about everything and be a bit desperate but... that's not going to be attractive. The guy doesn't want to feel like he is a last resort to you and if you're desperate, that's how guys can perceive it. Getting a guy to like you isn't achievable. He has to develop a natural affection for you and being relaxed will help that.
Direct. If he isn't taking the hints, then let him know that you're into him... directly. What's the point in waiting? Yes, it will be heartbreaking if he says no, but you can still be friends, right? And if he's happy when he's around you, then things are more likely to go better.
Have Fun. Getting a guy to like you can be very stressful, but the more fun that you can have, the better for everyone involved. After all, the courting process for you may never happen again!
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