Healthy love trusts their mate. Healthy love can rest assured their mate will always be around to lift your spirits and make you smile. Healthy love doesn't sneak around or have to spy. Healthy love does not always fight and argue. Healthy love will never try and get back at their mate. Healthy love is not overly demanding. Healthy love doesn't seek all the attention. Know you are separate people with separate thoughts and wants. Don't expect your mate to think or act like you. Don't expect your mate to know what you're thinking. Don't set the bar higher for your mate than you would set for yourself. Learn to communicate your thoughts to your mate. Deeply and truly care about the views and concerns of your mate. Try to consider your mate instead of always thinking of yourself first. Remember it's always better to give then to receive. Give your love to your mate wholeheartedly without strings attached or waiting for them to go first. Tit for Tat is very unhealthy. Do things from your own heart. Even if for that moment you don't get it back. Eventually it will come back to you. Usually when you get something back it's always greater than you imagined it would be. Be kind, kindness go a long way in love. It takes more effort to think of something devious to do and it's much easier to be kind.
To stay healthy one must work vigorously on it. The same with love, in order for your love to stay healthy continue to work vigorously at it. Medicine can help make you physically well; love can make you emotionally and physically healthy.
