Flirting Tips For Teenagers

Flirting Tips For Teenagers

Since I get this request all the time, today I am going to write some
flirting tips for teenagers. Here goes:

1) Groom Yourself Properly

Despite what your teachers tell you, appearance does matter. We do live
in a very shallow society. You want to look your best when you flirt
with the members of the opposite sex.

Play some sports and get into shape. Groom yourself properly and
dress cleanly. You do not need plastic surgery or brand name clothes.
Just pay SOME attention so that you are not scaring girls or boys
away.

2) Show Off Your Skills

Become good at something (be it sports, leadership, or music, etc ) and
display your skills in public. The more respect people have for you, the
easier it will be for you to flirt.

Here’s a good analogy. If you’re at the very bottom of the social ladder
at your school, if you try to flirt and push too hard, people are just
going to think you are a “creep”.

But be the guy who “dresses okay” but plays the piano very well, and all
you have to do is throw in a little bit of flirting to get lots of girls.

3) Make Eye Contact

Make eye contact with everyone, especially with your crush.

Try the following trick: Make eye contact with your crush from across the
room and quickly look away. Then make eye contact again but hold their
gaze for a few seconds this time. Smile.

4) Smile

Speaking of smiling, having a nice, genuine smile can make you
look a lot more approachable.

5) Walk Tall and Look Confident

No matter you’re a girl or a boy, walk tall and look confident.
Avoid slouching. This will automatically make you look better
regardless of your looks or gender.

6) Make People Laugh Without Being the Class Clown

Make your friends and classmates laugh – without being a class
clown. If you need help in this department, then go borrow
a few books on stand up comedy from your library.

7) Use Touch To Your Advantage

Hug your crush when you get a chance, and touch their elbow
as if you’re emphasizing a point.

8) Act Like A Challenge

Remember that people like what they can’t have, so if you are
too available to your crush, they may actually like you less
as a result. But keep in mind that acting like a challenge does
not equal being aloof. If you just ignore your crush, they
may think you’re just not interested in give up. You have to
show just enough interest to keep them thinking about you, but
not so much that they move on to another challenge. It’s a fine
line that you will “get” as you become more experienced.