Is there a really hot new guy on your horizon and you're dreaming of his desire for you? Do you want to make him as crazy about you as you are about him? Would you like to see him go to great lengths to get closer to you?
Hot guys usually know just how hot they are and they certainly know how to use it. But some of them can quickly feel badgered by women constantly throwing themselves at them. Here's how you can stand out of that crowd and have him want to be with you.
Physicality
You can't really get around this one, or can you? I once heard a man speak of Barbra Streisand. Not your typical beauty, some might say. But he was enamored by her charisma, her charm and just that je ne sais quoi that emanated from her. Like many of her fans, he couldn't take his eyes off here the moment she appeared on screen.
Physical attraction isn't about having the perfect face and flawless body. It's the whole package and that general vibe the guy gets just by seeing you and being around you.
Personality
That general vibe is going to come from your personality. No matter how well put together you are in the fashion sense, you have to let your personality shine and let him see that you're the type of woman he'd like to be with.
Having fun is a great clue, so don't sit in a corner moping. Few guys are attracted to the woe is me type, so get out there and shine.
Leave the Desperation at Home
Now that you've attracted his basic interest, don't hang all over him. Without being aloof and cold, remain calm, show a bit of independence and let him see that you're not in a rush to move anything along.
When he sees that you're not pushing for a relationship, he'll relax and enjoy being with you more. Your complete focus should be on having a good time with him, right then and there, and not on what will happen tomorrow.
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