The first is physical touch. A lot of people need to be hugged a lot, and need to be touched to feel the love that you have for them. It comes out of a necessity for warmth and human contact. When people feel far away from everything, the only way they can feel closer to everyone again is if people touch them, and show them affection through contact.
The next one is quality time. As humans we generally need people to spend lots of time with us in order for us to know that they care. When we spend time with someone it needs to meaningful and we need to connect with them on a deep level. It is important for us to know what there are people who are willing to spend time with us and really talk to us about what matters to us in our lives.
After that comes words of affirmation, or compliments. Some people need you to constantly tell them how much you appreciate them and how much you love them. It is very important that they here those words from you because you really mean a lot to them and your opinion really matters. If these people hear that you think they are wonderful then they will think that they are wonderful, too.Acts of service is another important way to show love for someone. People who need you to do things for them to experience love need to be shown love. They want to know how much you are willing to do for them, and they more you can do the more they feel loved. It helps them understand that you are willing to put work into the relationship, and that you are willing to sacrifice some things for them.
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