Effective Tips to Have a Good Relationship

1. Fix problems immediately - To have a good relationship, it is best that both of you should fix the problems immediately. If there are problems encountered in the relationship, try to fix them right away. Aside from that, you should not humiliate your partner by arguing with him or her in front of the public. It will just cause so much trouble. It will just lead to unnecessary outbursts of anger. You should patch up things before ending the day or even before going to bed. Discuss the issues that have brought you to the problem and never wait for tomorrow to fix everything.
2. Spend quality time - It is very important that you give and spend quality time with your partner. Time is very essential in every relationship. Try doing something fun and exciting together. Always try your best to complement each other and avoid focusing on each other's mistakes and flaws. Try to appreciate and boost up the positive qualities of your partner and do not focus on the negative ones. You should also learn to give ample time to make your partner feel loved.
3. Acceptance - It is very important that you accept your partner whatever flaws they may have. Do not attempt to change your partner. You have to face it and accept it. People do not have to change. People may learn from their mistakes and they should not be demanded to change. Do not compare them with others and show them how much you love them for who and what they are.

How to Stay Healthy in Love

Healthy love trusts their mate. Healthy love can rest assured their mate will always be around to lift your spirits and make you smile. Healthy love doesn't sneak around or have to spy. Healthy love does not always fight and argue. Healthy love will never try and get back at their mate. Healthy love is not overly demanding. Healthy love doesn't seek all the attention. Know you are separate people with separate thoughts and wants. Don't expect your mate to think or act like you. Don't expect your mate to know what you're thinking. Don't set the bar higher for your mate than you would set for yourself. Learn to communicate your thoughts to your mate. Deeply and truly care about the views and concerns of your mate. Try to consider your mate instead of always thinking of yourself first. Remember it's always better to give then to receive. Give your love to your mate wholeheartedly without strings attached or waiting for them to go first. Tit for Tat is very unhealthy. Do things from your own heart. Even if for that moment you don't get it back. Eventually it will come back to you. Usually when you get something back it's always greater than you imagined it would be. Be kind, kindness go a long way in love. It takes more effort to think of something devious to do and it's much easier to be kind.

To stay healthy one must work vigorously on it. The same with love, in order for your love to stay healthy continue to work vigorously at it. Medicine can help make you physically well; love can make you emotionally and physically healthy.

The True Existence of Love

"To age is quite different from to come of age" I say this because a lot have grown up. Maturity so therefore isn't growing but growing up. I have the pride to say that I can now say that I am growing up although, I am a few years behind my age but I hope to catch up one day. Love on the other hand, is not a feeling as we describe it but it is but a choice. Due to the advanced study, it has come to my understanding that such knowledge is well known among the boys than the girls. You choose whatever you want to love, how much sacrifice you are willing to give and how far you are willing to go. Your heart moves faster and slower at the same time is because of two things; you permitted it and God permitted it.

Love at first sight is blunt stupidity! Love formed in a day is hysterical, love created by the mind is an illusion, and love that happens through appearance basically is temporal and damaging. Love with a thoughtful choice, honesty and mutual understanding lasts long. Have you ever tried to fight your M&B version of love and it didn't go away, I have and it did and brought me a new light to the meaning of love. You pray for the person, you think you can sacrifice for the person, that is not love. Sooner or later you are going to get frustrated. The first thing that hits a girl when she is involved in love is a spark... uncontrollable and untamable spark blah blah blah...

looking for real love

It is so hard to describe myself, as I am sure it is for most people. I guess the best way to put it is that I am a really genuine person with a huge heart. I am very family oriented and I am looking for someone with strong family values. I am very friendly and love to be surrounded by fun, outgoing, positive people. I love to make people happy and I am looking for someone who I can truly be happy with! That's really it, what you see is what you get